Question #12

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • I don't know if this question is appropriate for this forum. But here goes. How do you feel about sex before marriage? And if you oppose it, how would you respond to the situation if your mate is ready for sex, yet you are not because you both aren't married yet? Of course, lol, many people will say No, dump him, but if there are any out there who would say yes, may I ask what is it that drive you to do something that is beyond your belief?

    As a conservative girl, I do not believe that I should have sex before I get married. I don't care what kind of a situation I am in, but for my concern, I believe that if a guy truly loves me as much as he said he does, he would certainly wait for me. I don't know, of course, my dating companion can also reverse this situation around and state that if I do love him as much as I said I do, then I should be able to loosen up a bit, and satisfy his desire. Of course, I did find an error as I was typing this up. When I fall for what he said, I am not only satisfying him, but I am giving up my beliefs- and that I don't think I am capable of doing. But on the other hand... not having sex prior to marriage is probably not a belief that many people have- hence therefore not going to break. Right?

  • flytothesky

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • I dont oppose sex before marriage. But I am against under age sex.
    For me it is okay to do it when you are 18 or older, regardless of married or not.

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Well, why is that? I have always been under the impression that people of asian decent are more conservative then those of other races. I guess I am wrong, but then and again, you are a guy, and I have never met a guy who opposes sex before marriage. :)

  • flytothesky

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • I do have a couple of buhddist friends who are abstinence, or so they say.

    Society is not like it used to be anymore. Sex is very common now. They even teach it to you when you are in grammer school ( sex ed ).

    Why do you belive sex is allowed only after marriage?
    We need sex to enhance our lives, saving it till marriage is letting our prime goes to waste.

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • I don't know. I have been raised this way and it is, I thought, was my cultural beliefs.
    Well, I can assure you, sex is not something I would wish to have with just anyone. Not even a boyfriend that I believe I love. I don't know, you can call it cheesy and what not, but it'll be special when you have it with just the right person, that same person you wish to live with.
    Society has changed. But that does not mean that it is a good change and you should do what society wants for you to do. Society is just another stress level that prevents people from doing what they believe is right just so they can "fit in" with society.
    Lol, yes, sex may be an "enhancement" as you may call it. I would agree... heh, but it's always nice to have a belief to hold onto and to carry it through. Little Mr. Naughty, looks like the American culture has gotten the best of you now, eh?
    I don't wish to become one of those girls who satisfy a guy just temporarily and move on. As I am still only in high school, it is difficult for me to maintain a lasting relationship. And nothing seems so true anymore.
    This conversation seems awkward, but I mean, marriage is an ideal thing- and having sex when you are married seems just so much more romantic... (am lost in my trail of thoughts).

  • flytothesky

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • loL.

    Yes sex in marriage can be romantic. But can't sex outside of marriage also be romantic? even thrilling? exciting? Of course I understand the risk involve, which is why I urge everyone to use protection.

    Iam just playing devils advocate here, not intending to say anyone's right or wrong. ahhhhhh, I luv to spice things up.

    Oh and I want to remind you am opposed to sex under 18, which covers high school kids, except seniors I assume.

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Lol, you are impossible to deal with! :) Innocent The risks involve lies mainly within the female, and not the male. A male can simply shake it off and pretend nothing has happened whereas a female may not.

  • flytothesky

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Are you refering as to mentally, or physically? or both??

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Of course both silly.

  • flytothesky

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • I see your point, girls are much more emotional than guys.
    Laugh of loud


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