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  • na_12t

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • hey sis.... hey everyone in MYE.. Íts almost valntine day i wish u all have your beloved to tell u that they love u... I dónt really have any prob but i when i think about it i have a prob that i couldn't solve for so long. When i was young i have some relative that i dónt like that much.. They alway like compare especially about beauty. I think that sucks, when i was young i look well ugly, but it doesént really matter.. I đínt really notce about anything until they begin comparing me with my cousin... And god it make me so mad, how could they be so cold, how could they compare one person to the other... They all told me that i going to turn out so horrible when i grow up, welll just for them to know i didn't and acutally now a lot of guy like me, but something reall bugging me y do they got to put me down... what is their prob? i dónt get it, y do my family alway make a big deal about how one look... Luckily i didn't have their blood, if not i going to be such a "think she all that" kind of girl..... But can someone clearify to me why would they do something so cold to me?

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • That's normal. When I was in VN, families their often compared their daughters or whoever to me and my sisters, saying that we're so pretty and white, and aristocratic almost if you must put it in that sense- but it's really dumb and we just ignore their comments because it is inconsiderate and rude all the same.
    Anyway, 'lil sis. I don't know how to help you because I have the same problem with my grandma. I would like to say that I hate her, but I think that I just hate her with a passion :P It's really hard to get along with her, especially since she never liked me and she always talk about how I have this "attitude" around her. Anyway, I meant, if she treated me with respect and the love a grandma should give her grandchildren- I would happily return that same affection for her. As I was saying, this is something that is beyond my control- because she is my elder and I am forced to respect her- but I do it with so much dissatisfaction that I know I will smirk and grin at her funeral (when will this be?!)... Sad, I know. Innocent
    Don't worry about your family sis- they are distant, at least you aren't forced to face them everyday. And it is way wrong to even compare one person to another- because everyone is beautiful and talented in their own unique way :) And just keep this in mind- you are a really sweet and lovable person, don't let your relatives make you think otherwise. :)

  • na_12t

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • i know right? am so pretty and loveable :blush: Laugh of loud Laugh of loud Giggling Anyway thanks sis.. but anyway last year when i go back to my country they totoally have to swallow their own words Grin cuz even me is impress of how i could change from one girl into another, if u would c me outsode before and look at me now, íll bet that u cánt recognize me... It almost impposible to beleve. But the dumb things is that when i goes back to Vn i c how my relative compare my lil cousin to another relative.. Uhm guess they do that to everyone.. they are so annoying Blinking Giggling

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Yeah, but thinking about it- it seems like people in VN are less considerate of the feelings of the people in their family. I mean, surely, in the US, if you ever go to anyone's house, you don't see people comparing one person to another- it simply is just rude. Sure I may be implying that Vietnamese people are rude, but it's just because they are so inconsiderate toward others' feelings. I wonder why that is...

  • na_12t

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • i don't know but i don't like Vnese people Laugh of loud i think ím races.... god that sound dumb don't like my own kind, but to be truthly to myself that really truth.. I don't like to hang out with Vnese kid like myself, cuz they alway want to butt in and don't really care what i think, so u would normally find me in a croud full of white, Pureto Rico , or African american girl i never hang out with Vnese girl, hardly. I try but they are so annoying.. And they don't like me either cuz they call me "bad girl" but no i'm not.. It just that my hair not like them and stuft like that.. U know Vnese girl usually have long and smoth hair, and alway put them loose.. I just want to break out of the ordinary a lil bit and they take that as a fact that am so different.. But i don't really care what they think, i could absolutely can do anything to myself if i wanted to.. So i usually don't like to hang out with Viet.. They so rude, i don't like hanging around them even know am "their kind" Giggling And u know what i like being like this... even know i dónt hang out with them it doesént mean i gonna fall into the wrong path, as long as i know what is good for me (and i absolutely think i know) then it all good Giggling

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • You know what I have found out about a large majority of people of asian decent. They would use and try to get as much out of you until you no longer become worthy of use for them- and that is when they turn around and kick you. Heh- this is completely ridiculous. My assocication with people of asian decent has been greatly limited due to where I live. And finally, my cousins decided to move to my part of the world and live and go to the same school I go to. Of course, I have done everything that I could do to make them feel welcome at the school. But it is so hard to get along with them- and to think we're family!
    See, people of asian decent has built in this sense of arrogance, one in which we believe that we are more superior. I believe that if our area of the world (I am hinting Asia) was an area of more superiority, such as wealthier, better militia, and etc, we would treat the people of other races worse off then they are treating us now.
    I have found to believe that people of Vietnamese decent are very hard to get along with (especially since I went to VN last summer) I am sort of grateful that I don't have to associate much with Vietnamese people in my area of the planet- but it sure makes you feel like you are lacking a part of yourself by not being with people like yourself.
    Oh well, anyway, I do agree with you 'lil sis. It is hard to get along and interact with people like ourself. It just is. :)

  • na_12t

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • well that totoally truth.. It wrong to say i hate Vnese people like myself, but mostly all the people i ment that are Vnese alway and only think of themselve, and dónt worthy other people.. I think that just wrong, but i'm guessing it going to change cuz as people immigrate to the USa and many other place in the world they must have learn something good from that place and hope as the future goes by our nation would be better then it was, because i really don't want to follow the same rule and the same dumb thinking that Vnese peopl;e have in many years, that i think is totoally ridiulous... i hope the new generation as ourself could make our nation a better place, and make our people think differently Grin

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • lol, some people change- others like my grandma refuses to change. She holds onto this illogical thinking pattern that she has had ever since ages and ages hence.
    I mean, I don't know, I guess I can get along with Vietnamese people, but like online though, and that is whack. Actually, no, lol even online I managed to not be able to get along with one person here. And it is pathetic to the extreme to verbally attack people via the internet. Isn't that as pathetic as it gets?? Laugh of loud

  • na_12t

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • oh wow sis even in the net Surprise Well surely to make u feel u not a lone, when i'm on the net, i'll will ask some of my girl go to a Vnese chat room and mess everyone in there up.. sometime they boot my butt out, (it felt so numb Laugh of loud ) but i guess i consider that as fun so i keep doing it anyway Laugh of loud And in the real world i'll try to be nice to Vnese people at first but if they got on my never i'll swear i'll don't give a damn and make them pay for what they did Devil I got a hot temper, so whoever live in C.T and know me just an advice don't ever mess with me Laugh of loud

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Lol, really you go and mess around with people just for fun like that?
    Actually, I can get along with anyone- until I choose not to that is. Sometimes, people just annoy me, or what not, and it aggravates me- but it's just the net. So after I get myself clear about what and why I am mad- I usually try to end the situation myself, usually by backing away because it is ridiculous. The only reason why I would ever get into a fight after a misconception with anyone is because I wish for a compromise, but considering it is just the net- there really is no use for that. :)

  • na_12t

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • well yes sis i do get into fight just for fun, but i don't bug everyone i just bug the people who bother other people, or have such a chatter mouth, u know.... Giggling And anyway ya is just the net it doesen't really important... i just think this place like a place for me to entertain myself... but for some people they think that the net could be their real life, they spend all their time up here.. Impressive.. If i sit here too long i think my butt gonna go numb Laugh of loud Laugh of loud Laugh of loud

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Lol. We are so far off topic I even forgot what the purpose of this topic is... lol, somehow we are really good at that, huh 'lil sis. :)

  • na_12t

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • ya ! now i couldn''t remember what prob was i was trying to solve, but anyway w/e it was oh well if i forgot i forgot.. what could i do right Innocent Laugh of loud


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