Rejected??

Lustify

khoảng 2 10 năm trước
Here's a question, what's the worst that could result from being rejected by the person whom you've secretly admired? Other than being rejected, of course...

emyeuanh

khoảng 2 10 năm trước
Well, Lusty, the worst that could result from being rejected by the person whom you admire is... well, is... I can't of one right now. All I have to say is don't be afraid of rejection, it's not that harsh. If you don't have the courage to ask the person you like if they like you or not than you're simply a coward. In the end, they might have been secretly admiring you also, but afraid of rejection thats why they stay quiet.. wouldn't you hate it if that really happened... I mean all of these times, he has a crush on you also, but afraid to tell you the truth... HmMm.... you would have to ask him yourself if you really want to know the truth.

útcưng

khoảng 2 10 năm trước
Hi Lustified!

In my opinion, the worst thing that can happen from being rejected is: your self esteem gets devastated . There are too many questions we would wonder about, like "Wháts wrong wit me ?" or "Am I not good enough ?" . This might lead to not being able to face that person animore because you feel hurt inside .
I think it is best to know before hand if a person likes you or not prior to telling him / her . It is not hard to do . I think we girls have evolved to do that quite keenly

Lustify

khoảng 2 10 năm trước
Thank you KimDung for answering the question. Now Tuyen, you didn't really answer my question... You gave my answers that even a parrot can respond to. Tsk Tsk

luv_yall

khoảng 2 10 năm trước
well let me try.. There one thing that would hurt me so bad except being rejected is that the one that u like go out and tell all his friend about how he think that was stupid how that girl ask him out,.. That just embaressing to tell the truth

Lustify

khoảng 2 10 năm trước
No, probably the worse thing about rejection is knowing that the guy you asked out said NO to you because he had a girlfriend and seeing them together.

luv_yall

khoảng 2 10 năm trước
well who would be dumb enough to ask a boy with a gf already hum maybe me but nahhhhh am still not that stupid

Lustify

khoảng 2 10 năm trước
Well, I mean, sometimes you may not know in advance that he may have a girlfriend already. It happens though, when they hide and try to make it all secretive.

útcưng

khoảng 2 10 năm trước
Lusti!!!
I don't think getting rejected is that bad, you know...
From the situation you've just mentioned, it's not that đau... At least he rejects you because he has a gf alreadỵ The thing that can happen is, he goes out with you and his gf is ignorant of what is going on. Isn't that worse?

Lustify

khoảng 2 10 năm trước
Hey Kimi! You haven't been on in such a long time, or at least you haven't posted in a while.
I don't know... I guess that would suck even more, the higher the climb the harder the fall. I don't know where that phrase came from- I just wanted to say it.

útcưng

khoảng 2 10 năm trước
I think rejection hurts so bad (for girls) vì con gái khi yêu ai thì yêu dữ lắm nghen, mà không tiện nói ra. Phần đông họ chờ đợi người yêu ngõ lời trước ...So, it's not traditional for girls to thổ lộ tâm tình ....Những người con gái "có gan" nói ra, họ đã phải chuẩn bị tâm lý rất nhiều và rất lâu ... Anything can happen right? Nếu bị rejected thì đau lắm: potentially ruining a friendship, lower self-esteem, broken heart, broken dream ... Nhưng mà, thanh thản hơn (relieved) vì không ai muốn giữ một bí mật mà đã đè nặng tâm trí mình ...

na_12t

khoảng 2 10 năm trước
troi noi thiet với máy chị nha em con nhỏ nhân mỏi lần em co ban trai thi ko co ng nao reject em het. But lustified know who i want, but the only thing that really hurt for me, except rejection is he never like me. That the worst things for me.. If i like him and finally i ask him he say no and i found out he never have any feeling for me that gonna be painful really painful! well but usually when a boy rejected u is that they dónt like u so anyway go round and round the worst things about rejection is REJECTION! THAT STUPID HA!

Lustify

khoảng 2 10 năm trước
Lol, humiliation is also a factor that prevents most girls from asking guys out. Guys can retaliate from rejections but girls have a hard time dealing with that and their wounđe emotions. I guess another horrible thing about rejection is being publicly humiliated. Like if it was announced out loud that he didn't like you because you were ugly, or you have greasy hair, or you smell bad, or something extremely evil like that.

na_12t

khoảng 2 10 năm trước
uhm ya that bad! hum u know what the biggest reason is that the girl think she not good enough for the guy and it does relate to all the things u said before! And i do think that is totoally truth Truth! RIGHT! SUCKS! YES TOO