To heal

  • útcưng

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • What can one do to speed up the healing process? My friends all said to get a new boyfriend, it helps... But I think íts so wrong; and I can't do it. I hate living in the past.

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Boy, what can I say. It's wrong but it works. There is no other process to speed up the healing process except for that one, that i am aware of. It's really hard to get over such emotional things that had such a lasting effect- but you know, it'll all be over soon. Once you get older and you look back at the moment, you would realize that it's just all another occurence in life. It's just love and heartbreak and if one doesn't focus on it then one would not have added another worry to oneself. "Pain is inevitable- suffering is a choice." You are choosing to suffer... Why even? It doesn't hurt, emotional pains only exist because one believes that it exists.

  • útcưng

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • I think you're correct. I think sometimes I make amplify my pain. I should stop doin that. I must tell myself: " I'm ok...I dónt get hurt.."
    Thank you Lusti

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • But then that might lead to denial Kim. I don't know if it's because humans tend to choose to suffer or maybe we were built in with that behavior.- to feel pain and be hurt, or maybe not. I know that no matter how cold-hearted anyone can be, he or she must still be able to feel something. I don't think anyone can pass that level, to not feel emotional pain.
    It's difficult but I don't really want you to say something that you don't believe because that's denial and denial tends to lead to things much worse than just a heartbreak. I don't know what to tell you but just to not worry about it and pretend he was never in your life before... oh wait, that's denial, no I wouldn't categorize that as denial. Oh great I lost my trail of thoughts. Well, good luck Kim and I hope you get over your suffering quickly and return to good old happy Kimmỵ :)

  • emyeuanh

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • As soon as you find someone new, like a new crush, your pain would heal. A new boyfriend would always do the trick. It's not wrong, it's just life. You just want to get over your pain so that's the best way. And maybe that your new crush will be 'the one'. Innocent

  • útcưng

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • I think what you said works for me Lusti! For some reasons, I stopped thinking about my problems and said, "sI can't get hurt because it's out of my control now". And it works. I used to think that I'm weak but it's just because I don't wanna get over my past feelings... I must aggree that a new bf realli helps but he gotta be the right one for me right? I mean the one that I realli like.
    You guys are sister for real?

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Yes... sadly to say. Well, she's just really nosy and she needs to get out of my personal affairs. Lol I think she's going to choke me for saying that. I like calling her a monkey, it makes her mad... But it makes me happy seeing her mad.
    I'm glad that I could have been of any help to you Kim. That is way cool that it worked, I never thought my advice could influence anyone. Awesome!

  • luv_yall

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • hey Lustified u seem to be really good at answering people question íll give u a question of my own later today so look for it ok Laugh of loud

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Thank you, qua khen I already replied to it, lol.


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