Frustration....I hope anyone could give me a lil advice... And i hope Lustified would read this too

  • luv_yall

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Ok! Lustified u should know who my bf is u saw him before... yet before anything ever happen between me and him i have an ex bf. I really love my ex..... To tell the truth i still do... but we broke up cuz his family are alway in a bungle with mẹ They dónt seem to like me so much.. That the only reson y i ever broke up with my ex.... Then i ment my bf now u saw his face(Andrew). My bf is a really nice guy but i just think that the only reason am dating him is because it just for a replacemẹnt I really stuck between right now. To tell the truth i f my ex want to be with me again íll agrree with him their is no doubt in my mind that i would not come back to my ex. I think the only reason i ever go out with Andrew cuz he cute and he nice and he the first guy who try to comfort me after i broke my relationshịpbut like i say before if my ex ask me out again i would say "YES" even know... I know that will hurt my real bf a lot but i would.... Do u think i should just broke up with my real bf right now so i wouldn't hurt him. Or keep him blind from the truth and keep going out with him like nothing has ever happen. but really i think u would say broke up with him and let him go. If it was as eassy as that i would never say nothing. Yesterday he call me and told me that he love me a lot and that totoally broke my heart. I only want to be his friend. I shouldn't ever started the reltionship but w/e i say i still start it. My bf told me that if it without me he rather not gonna live no more usually when i hear that i feel really weird but yesterday when it coming out of his mouth i feel just guilty that is all i could feel. Now i feel stuck if i broke up now íll totoally broke him up. And i know how that felt, i do not want it to happen to anyone else, but if i dónt íll felt guilty all my life... If i dónt i dónt know how long i could lie to myself.... Today am really frustrated and really need help... And u seem to be really good at these thing. If u could plzzz give me an advice...And anyone who read this am desperate for help so just help me for minute plzzzzz

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • I have an idea. Break up with him and save me the remains. ;) Of course not, I was just kidding.
    Now, I am deeply disappointed to hear such a situation like this. I think that letting go right now would be the right decision. It's never too late to tell him the truth. Leading people onto a relationship that virtually does not exist is complete intolerable. I think Andrew would rather know the truth. I know the truth hurts, but any form of the truth is and always will be tens of thousand times better than one lie, even if it was a slant lie. I'm pretty sure Andrew will understand, sure he will be deeply wounded from the break-up but I'm pretty sure he will quickly recover.
    Now about your ex boyfriend. Obviously his family was giving you trouble but I guess for that reason you would easily let go of a relationship as precious as your heart may be under the impression of, I think that he's not someone you truly love. It's not easy to let go of something you so dearly love, and once you let it go for such a reason as his family, you must not really love him as much as you thought. Đi you watch Luong Duyen Phan Le Hue? Starring Jessica Hsuan and Joe Ma? Well, I'm pretty sure that your ex's family couldn't have treated you much worse than Joe's family did to Jessica.
    Before breaking up with Andrew, I really want you to consider how much you love your ex first, and if it is true love that you are feeling and not some other mixed or unidentifiable emtions. Do you really want to sacrifice Andrew and his love for someone like your ex? Consider it deeply and maybe your heart will guide your way. Hopefully that helped you. :)

  • útcưng

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Great comment Lusti!!!
    Shure you're 16?

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Thank you. Actually I don't really know... I just use my parent's resources and that's what they told me, so yah, I must be 16. Lol, yup, Junior in High School. You're always on when I'm off, we're never online at the same time Kimmy. Wait, I like Kimi better.

  • luv_yall

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Hey thanks for the comment but now ím freak out. I dónt know how to tell my bf the truth and even if i đi i gonna feel really bad cuz he the best things that happen to me, still when ím near him i dónt feel any spark. If I broke up with him now that would mean i never gonna have the chance to be his friend. To tell u the truth Lustified u gave a lot of good idea but now u make me think if i really love my ex or not and that kind of a problem for me..... Truthly i dónt know how love really go... Confused ??? Confused ??? And andrew he so nice if i broke up with him and tell him the truth it totoally like am stabing him in the heart and that hurt really hurt cuz someone has cause me the same pain too.. And i don't want to make anyone feeel the same... Now am really comfuse.. Dónt know which way to go.. either way i go i gonna hurt him..... and i do not want to hurt him... Break up , íll stab him in his heart.... If not all i can feel is lie and i DO NOT have feeling for him not even 1 lil tiny bịt I know people gonna say am weird y i dónt have any feeling for him but it just truth when am next to him i just dónt feel that spark that i feel when i with my ex. Even know my ex broke my heart so many time i still LOVE him when ím next to him i feel a chemistry that i dónt feel from anyone... And that is how iI define love. AM so stupid! I KNOW! I think i gonna break up with him like u say even know it gonna hurt him now but he get to move on with his life.... The problem is i dónt know what can i start with to tell him... These few day i have try to hide from him, and that y am in the internet..... But from now on guess i gonna be in the net all the time cause tommorow everything gonna end between me and him... I finally make up my stupid mine that i would tell him................................................................... ............................. BUT i dónt know how to begin Cryin Cryin Cryin

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • The whole spark notion that you are feeling, could it just be that your mind refuses to feel spark between you and Andrew and your heart doesn't want to let your ex go. You know what is kind of interesting to me, if you can somehow stay away from your ex then sooner or later any kind of feelings you may have for him will disappear, because everything is over with and has been over with. Lingering, lan nhan giay dua- isn't always a good thing.
    Now, I can kind of sense that you have absoultely no feelings for Andrew, so tell him what you told me. Each and every bit of it that you cannot get over your ex and that you don't want to lie to him or yourself. That should do the trick. Hopefully. He will understand and if he doesn't, then just distance yourself from him and time will eventually mend all broken hearts.

  • luv_yall

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • thanks a lot even know i dónt want to be his gf still i would love to be his friend for some reason but ím just scare to broke up with him then suđenly tell him to be my friend. That just wrong right?

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Absolutely not. The best relationship that two people can have is possibly friendship. Love is precious, yet not a cherishable as friendship and family relationships. There is nothing wrong with being friends. If he is a good person then he would understand and not pressure you into maintaining a relationship that you don't feel comfortable with. And hopefully, as long as he isn't a selfish person then I'm pretty sure he would love to be friends with you. Like my cousin always said, it's always good to have one more person be on your side and support you.

  • luv_yall

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • ya that absoutely right but the problem is. Does he want to be my friend i hope he could say yes..... but usually when a couple break up they all said let be friend but finally they go their own way... Really this the first time i ever wanna be friend with someone i break up with... And am totoally serious.... But just hope he could understand my curcomstances and agrree to be my friend

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Only you know what kind of a person he is. I can only advise you to tell him, the outcome of the situation is no longer in your hands, but his; however, you can prevent further damage in the outcome of your guys' relationship. Good luck to you.

  • luv_yall

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • hey thanks a lot! U really good at these kind of things, whoever is your bf must be so lucky Giggling

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Yeah? Well, I'm currently waiting for my prince charming, his horse seems to uh, turned off on the wrong path, you see, because he's not here yet. Lol. :) Well, he is, but, you know, it's another one of those, so close, yet so far away situation. Well, I feel so happy I actually was of any use. lol.

  • luv_yall

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • hope your prince would find u soon if not oh well is his lost anyway Rolleyes :blush: Laugh of loud

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Lol he found me, just reluctant, I guess.

  • luv_yall

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • well then just hope u guy can get together......... I really want to see a happy ending for once in my life... Everything seem to start so eassy but when it end it all pain and surfering......... God i dónt know if my life sucks or everyone life is that way but i alway fall for the wrong guy.. Even ig Mr. RIFHT was in front of me i dónt even know..... I guess i need to learn all over again what love is... For some reason even my lil sis can explain what the word LOVE mean way way better then me.. WOW! OK IT TIME TO START ALL OVER AND BEGIN TO FALL FOR GOOD GUY! Innocent Grin Just hope i can do it. WISH ME LUCK Grin Laugh of loud Giggling


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