The Christmas present

  • útcưng

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Here is my big problem.
    He and I were good friends in high school. He liked me in the beginning, but I just thought he was handsome. The reason I knew he liked me for sure was he popped the question twice, which I never answered. I was confused and nervous. One thing that I never quite understood was: the majority of the Viets in the school di dn't like him. They said he is kinda cold and mysterious. But it never occurred to me that way. He was caring and sweet. He gives me guidance in solving my problems, he even helped me with my homework (smart guy) I have always have an attration for him, but because almost every one was against him, I ... couldn't. He would sometimes asked me to go to the movies with him, I only went once. He gave me a present for my birthday. It was so beautiful... He must have worked his ass off for it Giggling
    I strongly liked him in secret but never revealed it. Maybe in my actions he could tell, but they often contradict each other.
    We went separated ways after graduation. I di dn't see him for 6 months. It was awfully long. That Xmas, I just wanted to see him so came to his house and gave him a present. I think he was surprised. One week later, he asked me to the movies, we went. It was fun.
    Then, I di dn't see him for 2 years.
    Last Xmas, while I was enjoying my break, he called. It was exactly 1 week until Xmas. We went to the movies again. Awesome! He picked me up earli so we had time to talk while waiting for the movie to start.
    About a week later, we were supposed to go see a movie again. But we decied to stay at my house to sing karaoke. We were the only ones there. My family had gone out shopping.We song ca and he flirted with me the whole time. :blush: I gave him a present for Xmas when he was about to leave. He hugged me for the first time.
    In the next morning, he called me and said:" Get ready, I'll come pick you ụp" Then, we went to the movies again. He tried to isolate us from others ... with the excuse :"How can I make my move when people are near?" During the movie, he told me to close my eyes, so he can give me a present. I knew something fishi is going on. Reluctantly, I closed my eyes. And he kissed me. I froze. A million things were going on in my head...I was kinda quiet after that. On the way home, he told me to forget about what happenned earlier, we will always be good friends...
    What does that mean?

  • º¿º

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • It's all depend, but first, there're a few questions to be answer to yourself first.
    what kind of kiss was it? quick on the lips? deep with tougne and the final question is: DO you like it?

  • útcưng

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • hi DK!
    Thank you for taking the time to read...
    It was on the lip. Because I still like him, so of course I like it!!! hỏi chi mừ lạ rứa ? Làm ngừ ta méc cỡ! :blush:

  • Khoai

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • KimDung wrote:hi DK!
    Thank you for taking the time to read...
    It was on the lip. Because I still like him, so of course I like it!!! hỏi chi mừ lạ rứa ? Làm ngừ ta méc cỡ! :blush:

    heh. sorry if the questions made you un ease .. but they (the ?s and answers) have everything to do with what you asked "What does it mean" ...
    Here what I think, (in short vơzần version) hehehehehe
    you were quiet --> he worried you might not like it, its not appropriate, ect. ect.. ---> forget about it = to safe face or "cool" about it. Period.

    finally, If you like wháts there. take it. not at full speed but at speed limits... hehehe you dont want to get pull over do you?
    best of luck

  • útcưng

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • I'm just playing about the méc cỡ thing Giggling
    So, you think he just wanna giữ mặt mũi huh?

    After Xmas, he invited me over for a family partỵ Because my family was gonna have a party also that day, so I couldn't go. On New Year, he came over to my house to party after work (almost midnight)
    Last week, he called me up and said:" I'm goin back to school in a few days. It's my last chance to see you ... If you wanna do sumthing together, thì cứ nói ..." Then he cười and said playfully: "If I were you, I would go...đi ha?"
    At that moment, I knew that he has the power to lift me up to pure joy, and after that he will choose to jus let me be. So I said I can't go; although I realli wanted to see his face, and I really wanted to remember the way he smiles at me.
    Was that a good decision?
    And, DK, do you think he likes me?

  • Khoai

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • hmm..."So I said I can't go; although I realli wanted to see his face, and I really wanted to remember the way he smiles at me." playing hard to catch eh KD?, oh well, I guess thats the girlie thing eh? ... hehehehe just kidding.. "Was it a good decision?" you asked... it's may be a little bit early for me to tell you about: "things happen for a reason"... but lets do the short version again shall we? :)
    go find the song "my way" (frank sinatra) ---> did it my way --> regret I got a few. but then again to few to mention ----> heheh.. there will always be a regretion here and there.. but who cares... you live and learn---> íts YOUR decision it must be GOOD for some reasons? RIGHT? :)
    Second question: Do you think he likes you?
    Let me share a little secret about boys.... heheheh we like ALL girls.... if you know what I mean...
    BEst of luck

  • útcưng

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • DinhKy, is it your real name? Let me guess: Đỉnh Kỳ, right? oh well
    Thank you!!!

  • Khoai

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • I realli like your style of writting.. (pretti good) ---> heheeh you ought to write more .. heh. has "he" called you yet? hés been back to skewl for awhile now isn't he? no wait.. have you called him yet? hehehehehe..
    btw... no need to thank and you are close of guessing my name (but no cigar) heheheeh sorry

  • útcưng

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Pretti good huh? thiệt hôn? Dk còn better nữa kìa! Thanks nha!
    He hasn't call me yet; he là vậy đó! Always đem đến những bất ngờ cho Dung. Sometimes I wonder if I should just forget him...
    DK, how about you? bồ Dk mô? Sao thấy Dk nhớ bồ hoài vậy ?

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Well well well... guess good old Kimy bounced back from the horrible trauma of her ex-boyfriend. But, I'm glad to hear that you're over your ex (from my assumption) and that you've carried on.
    Now, from my perspectives, I assume that you do like this guy, but to a minimal extent. Now I totally agree with dinhky- he was just trying to maintain a good impression of him after that kiss because he was afraid it was too sudden for you, and he probably didn't want to lose you as a friend. I say that guy is a keeper.
    Now one thing boggles my mind just the same, is he the misunderstood type? Like imagine, if you dídn't really know him and you saw him for the first time, would your impression of him be negative? I mean, it surely is hard for the majority of the Viet students at school to have a particularly "negative" eye toward one student. Now he must have done something to offend them- or may be he's the type that is too deep to be understood. Like, I mean, sometimes just being different may cause misunderstandings. But I don't know, only you know him. I don't know how well you know him, but wait and see how he treats other people, like his family, or your family, during times in which you may catch him offguard.
    Okay, I'm pretty confident this guy likes you- All signs lead to it. He's probably, no, most likely mis-reading your signals. Maybe he is confused about what kind of relationships you want with him and he doesn't want to be too radical because he's afraid of scaring you away.
    Well, if all goes well, I say this guy is a keeper, he seems awesome. :)

  • útcưng

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Hi Lusti!!!
    It's great reading your comment once again. How are you?
    I guess I did move on. the past relationship with my X- bf is horrible.
    You actually think that he's a keeper? The question you asked me earlier, I would say no. He's the type of guy who leaves a good impression of himself. But when you talk to him, you might think that he is conceited (tự cao, kiêu ngạo) because he seems too confident in words and actions. Mayvbe he doesn't care waht others think of him... You know what my little sister think? She thinks all those people that dislike him were jealous of him. Devil I think it's funni but it might be true.
    So, what's going on between you and da hot guys at school??? Fill me in, Lustified...

  • Khoai

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • man.. I am sitting here and re-readiing all these writting and feelings... then suddenly I wonder why are we even have this dicussion? this topic is a done deal the minute KD wrote its tittle ... "Chismas Present" KD already made up her mind that the experience IS a present to her... hehehhehe.. (and I heard someone is moving on?) hehehehe..

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Lol the title could be interpreted both ways dinhky, the way you proposed or the exchange of christmas presents between Kimi and that guy.
    You know what, Kimi? That could be true about the guy. Sometimes when a person is too over-confident about his or her appearances or intellect, it may cause hatred and various feelings of jealousy from other people. It is true, so that could be why. But then and again, there is absolutely nothing wrong with too much self-esteem right?
    And yes, he seems like a keeper to me, but you really wouldn't know until you give it a try. You like him and he likes you too, so what is there to think about?
    And well, there is nothing really special going on in my life right now. Physical appearances isn't always everything, but that is the only way that I am attracted to that guy at school. I mean, he's funny, but then and again, he's a jock too, and he is really outgoing, so I am very confused why he's hesitating. But that's okay, I don't think I really want a relationship right now either, or at least that's the excuse I give to other guys who have asked me out. But then I think about it, why should I have to wait for him to ask me out and reject all the other ones? I don't know, I felt like I made a big mistake rejecting this one guy, but I didn't feel it then when I said no. But I said no nicely, and I even apologized for hurting his feelings. He's moved on now though, so that's good, but I keep thinking about how much I would be over the guy I liked if I went out with the guy I rejected. I hate one for one trades.

  • útcưng

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • I wish that I could have interpreted it Dk's way; I wouldn't have to go thru all this...But this story has been on my mind for some time now; and it's really troublesome. A friend told me about a week ago: "Never tell a guy that you likes him! He would think you're cheap..." It frightened me for I have been wanting to tell him, not to get anything in return, but just to free myself from a secret that I have been carrying for years . In reality, I never felt entirely happy with anyone I've ever been with. I would miss him. I guess by writing it out like this and asking for your opinions, I would feel better. :)
    Lusty!!! You don't have to feel bad after rejecting that one guy. I think he would feel alot better being rejected by you than going out with you so that you would get over your guy... How could you think that it's a trade. You can only act according to what your heart tells you. I think you have made a great decision.
    Cám ơn DK and Lusti đã giúp Dung clarify this situation nhen... When it comes to chiện tình cảm, I'm kinda blind Blinking Good nite

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Omg Kimi, your friend is wrong about that whole a girl is cheap thing if she told a guy she likes him. That is so wrong. Do you think a guy is cheap if he told you he likes you? No! Of course not, don't feel that way. By not telling him, he may not understand. Just tell him and see how it goes.


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