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  • na_12t

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • uhm here u goes with my blah blah blah again. Anyway i just hear this story a few minute ago in the phone with my friend, and it pissing me off. This is how it goes... This girl in my school to be nice i call her a smart girl, to be mean i call her a nerd. anyway every sad ending story alway have a boy in it. This boy totoally sucks. The girl told him that she like him, but he totoally mess her up. sure he can reject her that not so bad, but he going around spreading gossip about her. He such a loser i guess that the first time a girl told him that they like him that y he making a big deal about it. He should have learn how to keep his mouth shut. Well i feel bad for the girl (for a second) until my girl friend told me that the girl keep following him. How could that girlk have a paitence with such a jerk like him. God i feel like punching in his face, after all she have done for him he spreading gossip about her Evil And can't believe that girl still following him. Can someone tell me does she really think that he was the truth love of her life? That y she be following him? I just don't get it! And hearing this story making me more scare to make my decision whether if i want to tell my crush the truth sis Cryin This really sucks Cryin

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Well, since you consider her a "nerd" this is my perception of the story. Nerds are generally more sensitive about their feelings. Because she is a "nerd" she is most likely not very out-going and is not very confident about herself. So when she falls in love- she falls in love for real and gives it all she has despite what the guy does. She must have loved him without expecting for him to love her in return. Some may say that is very romantic and lovely of her actions- but I would say that it is a waste of both of their time. It was a bold act of hers- and I'm glad she did it- but I don't think she quite understands what kind of a condition she is in.
    Now one thing I don't understand- a nerd to my understanding is an intellect who is also an over-achiever. Yet to some people, a nerd is a four-eyed, snorting girl with two pig tails. It's rediculous how people has such weird perception of a nerd. I actually respect those nerds- they may be the next einstein- or even the person who may save your family by developing a cure for cancer. They are someone people may pick on for now- but years and years to come, just watch, that same person making fun of them may be working for them :P
    Now na_12t, Don't be afraid to confess- you like him and he probably is feeling something for you to. I feel like we're both in the same situation. From your story it sort of reflects the life trauma I am going through just as well. Hey, go to "What is it that you see? Love or Lust" page on Gỡ rối tơ lòng and give me some advice won't you? I need help too. For some strange reason I can help everyone else except for myself.
    I know it sucks to be afraid of public humiliation and rejection. And considering you are in 7th grade (I'm assuming because you are 12) you still have 5 more years to deal with that guy. So it may be a bit difficult for you now and I understand completely that you are afraid of him rejecting you. Only because I am that coward myself. But it's an act of cowardice and according to my friend's advice, if I simply just tell Kerry that I think I like him, then even if he does reject me I will feel so much lighter and even better. It's all an act of cowardice. But then I question my true feelings for him and I can't quite find it in my heart to risk so much to love Rolleyes

  • na_12t

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • ok i already try to answer your prob sis! Anyway i don't think it would help u a lot if u still shy or scare around the guy. Just be brave! Wow sis i feel so easy saying that but to tell the truth it kinda hard to do, but luckily your sisuation is that the boy is brave enough to tell u how they feel, but u the one that freak out. Well i guess that a good things.. I just hope that u get rid of your worrinest and begin letting him confronting u. Don't let the guy wait any longer.. Guy don't have that much of a paitene for all i know.. Just hope u guy confront your feeling to each other, and u have a happy ending. Good luck sis! Giggling AND DON't be SHY! everything gonna be o.k! Oh anyway luv u a lot Giggling c u later sis! Grin

  • na_12t

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • oh ya sis did u heard the song The chase. by Trish and Cardin. I think it relate to your sisuation a lil bit i guess http://www.maiyeuem.net/vtopic9637.html if u hasn't heard it go to that site. I paste that and i have the lyric for it too

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Okay thank you for the song, I'll get to hearing it right away. Before I do though, thank you for helping me. I know how it is too- it's really always so much easier to give people advice but I can never advice myself to do the right thing. Yes, I freaked out, which is a bad move for my part, but then it also kind of puts a challenge up for him- if he realy loves me like I think he would give me the time to think it over. I don't really want a guy who doesn't have patience. :)

  • na_12t

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • ok sis if u say so, then let him wait, but go to warn u.. Boy have their limit so just don't let him wait too long, if not u may lose your chance of having a truth love. Just good luck, and think it over... take your sweet, sweet time Laugh of loud

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • I know what you mean. I don't want to make him wait for me because I can't make up my mind. But, I don't know what I should do. He looked so good today, he dressed up really nice for a basketball game and I realized he also had this professional and sophisticated side to him. It was amazing, and that was when I realized how little I knew him. I don't know if it is a good idea to start something with him just yet.

  • na_12t

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Well sis if u can't let your mind decide if u would like to date that guy or not then keep thinking but an advice don't be dumb like me and except to be his friend.. Just keep looking for what u don't know about him, maybe u'll find out something real special about him, and that speacial things would lead u to luv, who know... Maybe, maybe not Giggling

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • What do you mean? I couldn't quite comprehend what you were saying sis. I don't know how true I am being to myself when I say this, but I know that my heart beats in a sense for him. I kind of have this extremely soft spot in my heart for him. I feel lighter seeing him and it makes me feel like we belong together. I have spent quite a while thinking about it, months actually and my mind hasn't quite came to a conclusion. When I was in love with this other guy once, I vowed to never love anyone else except for him, and of course I am completely over him, I feel like I am betraying myself for making a promise that I am not willing to keep. That probably doesn't have much to affect the situation I am in, but it surely does make me feel lowly about myself and my ability to believe in what I say and do.
    I feel very bad hesitating. If only I knew exactly what it was that I wanted. Maybe he's not perfect yet and I am waiting for something. I don't know what it is yet, but it's making me hesitate. I am so dumb. Love is so complex that I don't even want to give or receive love.

  • na_12t

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • what i'm saying is that maybe u would find something real speacial about him that may lead u to luv... And that is a real good things.. Anyway i highly doubt that u don't have feeling for him i just think now u just scare and don't want to except the fact that he may going to ask u out. Is that it?

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Well, why would I be scared though? Maybe I just don't want a relationship now. That could be it. Actually no, I don't know, I think a relationship now would be fine, it doesn't bother me. What bothers me is the fact I feel so distant from him at certain time and really close another. Like sometimes I just feel myself getting near and a conversation will spark, yet other times I don't even enjoy his presence... Do you know what I mean? It may be wacky mood swings or what not, but it's weird how I change moods so fast. Like today for example, I really enjoyed being around him, yet just a couple days ago I didn't even want to be anywhere near him. I didn't feel like talking.
    Maybe it's the problems I've been dealing with my friends too that's affecting the way I feel toward another relationship. It's so dumb how so much drama can exist in our group that I wished I was friendless. And maybe that has been creating a reason for my sudden happiness or depression. I feel myself being really depressed lately, so maybe that's why I enjoyed his presence around me. Yet, what happens when I am no longer depressed?

  • na_12t

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • uhm about your friendship that make u depress i can totoally understand that, because i have the exact same prob but they dónt come and ask for my advice but they come to me to just make trouble. They alway try to make me depress about my past life. And my past life is not that cheerful, sometime i wish i have a car accident so i would forget about everything that has happen, but i couldn't and whenever my friend remind me of those thing i felt depress.. I dónt wanna be near anyone. Is not because of him that y u dónt feel as good but it just how the things around effect u and then when it come to him and u get more stress, and u don't enjoy being around him, but when u feeling happy of course the first person u want to talk with is the one u like. The simple things to put this is that the things around u affect your mood all the time. And that just a normal things for a human being. So don't worry that not a weird things.. And i just figure out something i don't know if it totoally truth or not but i think u do have feeling for him and u do want a relationship, yet your friend, people around u making u more stress so u don't want to put more things on yourself that y u don't want to u know.... But anyway whenever u feel that it was the right time for u to have a bf then go for it.. Give him a chance Giggling

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Thanks so much. I'm glad I have a 'lil sis like you here to help me with my problems. I try to escape from my problems in school by constantly going online too. I can't help not to be depressed. My friends are all turning into sluts and druggies right before my eyes and there is absolutely nothing I can do to help them, and instead they encourage me to fall into their footsteps. It's really horrible what is going on with them, I just don't get why they put so much stress on me. Everyday, each one of them would come to me with their problems, about their so-called boyfriend, or how one thinks that she is pregnant, or how smoking is so much fun. It's all an addiction and I am so sick of them. I wished I can move and get away from them... and the worst part is they don't even know. I play it off so well, they all still think that I am the happy old Lusti like I once was, but I'm not. And none of them even takes their time out to even have a normal conversation with me without talking about oral sex, or stupid stuff like that. They don't even know about my problem, yet it seems like telling them it would just even cause more problems for them to handle. I don't know, but I am really grateful to have you here 'lil sis, so I can talk about my problems knowing that someone in this world is actually listening. :)

  • na_12t

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Uhm of course i'll listene to u i'll try to help u my best i could.. If u need anything and i can do it i would.. But it a good news to hear that u not following their foot step. I just hope u can try to avoide them as much as u could, because from what i'm hearing from u your friend is a complete maniac (no offense) but luckily even know u play with them u hasn''t follow them, and i hope that u never would.. Anyway now i c that you have a lot of stress in your mind, so i don't think having a bf right now would be a good things, unless he was the kind of guy that is caring.. Then that a totoally different things.. But if he not then u shouldn't date him yet cuz if u really do is would create more prob for u and your life. And u know what if u want to move then move to my place, and live with me Laugh of loud Laugh of loud Laugh of loud j/k... :blush: But if u really want to then u are welcome here Laugh of loud My house can fit one more people in here :blush: Laugh of loud Laugh of loud Laugh of loud Uhm but it kind of impressive how u have a lot of prob in your hand and u can still be able to think clearly and help other people through their prob... oh wow.... u so impressive.. Go sis! Go sis! u will get through Band Laugh of loud Laugh of loud Giggling

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Lol, aww I have my own personal cheerleader here. That's awesome.
    Of course I would never go along with my friends, although I am an overly critical snob, I don't tend to follow the trends very much. I enjoy doing things my own way and behaving in manners that I feel would enlighten my vision toward the world, even if it means being someone I am not.
    I do feel stressed with my friends but I am more stressed with myself. I can't leave Kerry hanging thinking that I want a relationship and if I said "no" right now he would never want to be my friend. So that's like losing a perfectly great guy to be around and converse with. Truthfully speaking, Kerry is another one of those superficial jocks, as far as I know of. Sports is his life. Or at least that's what I thought of him prior to observing him more carefully. Inside his superficial impression lies this really sweet and caring gentlemen, but I don't know how "loving" he is capable of being. All I know is I don't want to start something that I am not ready for or end a possible friendship that hasn't even started.
    Life is so complicated, 'lil sis. What my friends don't know yet is that I might move next year... my senior year in high school. See, my sister is moving off to college next year and she is renting an apartment in the big city of Portland, and I may go with her. What I am contemplating about is whether I would want to sacrifice everything I have right now, my lame friends who are chosing the wrong path in life and is constantly encouraging me to try it out, and also I don't really think that I want to leave because, well because my body wants to go but my heart is telling me to stay. The only thing that is keeping me really from leaving is probably my grades, which is still very high, and my rank in the school, and my soon to be valedictorian status which I am afraid I would lose because the big city life may change my perspectives in life. And also Kerry is another reason too... but I go to this school everyday wishing out and when my wish is in my hands and it's just a matter of what I want, I can't quite figure it out. If it was you and you can move, would you?


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