Long Distance Relationship.can it work ?

  • Sw3et2DaMaxs

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • i thought i bring up this topic because i believe it sound interesting and dont know whether it been brough up in this forụm

    well let just say you been promote by your company to be manager for a branch of company, it just so happen that this branch locate in another state,

    and you tell your partner that you really want this job, because deep down u noe this only chance you have to climb up the ladder of company, and of ocurse this would mean higher wage, which lead me to plan of marrying her next year, to live up to my promise that once i am financial secure i will marry her.

    but then this would have mean i will be living far away from her, and she doesnt approve of the idea, and it seem certain that if i accept that job it will be end to our relationship.

    what should be done ?

  • na_12t

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Well uhm i don't know this, but it just for fun i'll give it a try anyway Giggling .... Let see relationship with the one u cherish so much or the dream job that could make both of your life better.. I alway put it into two different way. usually if u just talking and make the cornversation then usually people will pick luv then their jobs, but for what i think in a real life sisuation sorry to say i won't pick luv, anyway the reason is having a new job that mean we both have a better life. How dumb to quit the job if your fiancee let just say really luv u she wouldn't stop u either.. If u want u both can move to that state and live together.. This topic seem frustrated but it not really is.. U don't need to pick only luv or your job their alway a third option behind.. Tell your fiancee to move to your place and everything gonna be o.k.. So now u have her and your job, and now u can use your job to climb up to the top, making your life both better.. I don't see what so wrong about that. well your two option making people think too much anyway am a selfish person as u would say, i pick both, cuz their a way to sovle the problem, i'm not totoally stuck on that one so y should i gave up anything Grin Laugh of loud

  • luv_yall

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Well if i only get to pick in one of though things then i'll definitely picking the one i luv over money. Money is one things u can make over time. It just the things out side if u work hard for it, u'lll get ịt But luv is one things that only come once a life time, if u let go of the one u really luv then i'm sorry say u must be one of the most selfishest people ever living on earth.. U rather pick money over the one u luv Shock that sound dumb.. But i do agree with na for one thing if my fiancee can move to where i'm living and live with me, then we that not a bad idea. I can get both of the things i wanted the most.. But if my fiancee won't agree to move with me and making me pick one choice over the other then íll definitely pick my fiancee.

  • útcưng

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • I would pick the job... Yêu nhau không phải lúc nào cũng phải ở gần nhau. If your love is true, then distance should not be a problem. This might be a chance for you to test your love for her and her love for you. Although có câu "xa mặt thì cách lòng" nhưng đôi lúc it helps enhance passion.

  • Khoai

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • hahahaa. I like it "help to enhance passion" ... for who?

  • útcưng

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Blinking Nghe Dk cười là biết đang suy nghĩ đen tối rồi
    enhance passion của hai người đó mà

  • dieuhien

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • mình thật sự không biết phải nói sao vì mình khong fải là người ở trong cuôc....Nguoi xua thì hay noi xa mắt cách lòng, nhưng bay giờ có rất nhiều phuong tiện có thể bù đáp sự xa mặt ấy, tuy coi 2 nguoi đa quen nhau bao lau, tình cam có chan tình khong ? và phai coi 2 nguoi có thật sự là có nợ với nhau khong nữa, mình cũng là đang ở trong tình trạng của bạn nhưng mình là gái, mình không thể nói về /dùm người yêu bạn được, nhưng mình khi ấy vẫn chấp nhận cho anh ấy đi, vì nếu dử lại cã 2 sẽ buồn tương lai sẽ không như ý mình tưởng tương. đến bây giờ m`inh và nguoi yeu mình vẫn con quen nhau..nhưng bạn nen nhớ là phải vì trái tim 2 nguoi muon, khong the 1 nguoi đuoc, nếu như cả 2 muon giu gin cai gi goi la "tình yeu" thì sẽ có cach...người con gái khi yeu chan tình, thì chỉ có bù đắp và đùm bọc tình yeu chứ khong có tìm cách cấu xé và rạng nát ra đâu bạn ....đó là ý mình thôi, chúc bạn tìm ra được cau giải đáp theo ý

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Well, I haven't read the others' response yet because I know for a fact I will most likely forget what I will have to say so let's let me start on it eh? I believe that if a relationship can be so easily torn up by geographic barrier then that relationship can be broken very easily. Let's just say that if someone does not approve of what you think is right or best for you then that someone is not worth your time and marrying someone who does not have faith in you or your relationship is a waste of both of your guys' time. It's rediculous to hear that separation for only a year will decrease the love you have in each other. It shouldn't decline, yet instead it should increase with each days that goes by when you two are apart. Don't start marriage with someone who is too centered around themselves to care about you and your future sw3et2damaxs... it'll end in ruins and it may collapse. Okay time to read others' posts.
    Now what luv_yall said is true- to pick love over money. But remember, pick the person that you believe is right for you and make sure that you can surely sacrifice your job for the relationship. In this case, I say it is not worth it to sacrifice your financial future for someone who does NOT even believe in your relationship to begin with. :) BTW, this is jus my personal opinion- the choice is yours and only yours- but I would like to hear the outcome of your situation ;)

  • Sw3et2DaMaxs

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • hmmm wow i never expect this much of reply hmmm how should i begin.
    in reply to NA_t12
    if only it was that easy she have job too and also she live her her mum, i just cant make her n her mum quit they job n move to another state with me, plus i don want her to move she seem to love her job here working with her friend and that she really enjoying her job, an di noe how hard it is to find job that u actually enjoy doing.

    and yes LUV_YALL i did choose love over career :blush: and yes the thought of LUSTIFIED did went across my head too, is she worthy of all of this, but then i just wipe that out of my mind, cuz i love her and as i say b4 if you love some1 u just give and expect nofin in return. even though i make the wrong choice but i am not regretting it one bit.

    and KIMDUNG Laugh of loud wut can i say, yes i understand wut u mean, once i take trip outer state for the weekend, then i realise how much i miss her, and how much have she comsume my everyday of life, like wihtout her i cant think straight, and yes thing i learn out of that trip is that how much have i loved her. i hope that is wut u mean by ENHANCE THE PASSION :blush: oh did u mean somfin else Devil

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Wow, I'm glad to hear that you love that girl so much. I wished one day I can find a guy that truly loves me for who I am and would risk whatever it took to be with me, just like it sounds with you and your fiance. Anyways, I pray you the best and whatever choice it is, let's hope the outcome of it will positive :)

  • Sw3et2DaMaxs

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • well me and her is over for a good 3 months alreadỵ

    heheheh LUST i am pretty sure one day a knight in shiny armour will come to you and sweep u off ur feet Laugh of loud i đi visited ur website u look cute, ur half viet yeah ?

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Naw, I'm 100% Viet, both of my parents are Viet, and both of my parent's parents are Viet. So that makes me all Viet. I don't have a single blood in my body that isn't Viet. But I can see why you made that assumptions, when I went to Vietnam for vacation people assumed one of my parents were white...
    BTW, thank you for visiting my website, barely anyone ever go to it. That's because my website is really messed up, like none of the photos show up because the link is dead and I am to lazy to upload them. Anyways, thank you for the compliment and I do hope my prince will come... and not another lying cheating scum...
    So are you saying that the geographic barrier led to the downfall of your relationship...? As in it already happened and you just brought it up again to see how others would respond?

  • Sw3et2DaMaxs

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • really u 100% viet, me too, but alot of ppl get me mix up thinkin i am thai or filo hahaha probadly cuz of my tan skin, cant help it if i like the beach that mụch

    nah led to break up is not geographic as i am willing to reject the offer from companỵ let just say she done really bad thing to me n she cant forgive herself same go for all her friend they cant forgive her and all turn they back on her, well it good to noe her friend are behind me on all of this thing. but i really fell sorry for her righ tnow, and wish her the best, from wut i hear she get marry soon to this guy she noe for 1 or 2 month

  • Sw3et2DaMaxs

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • I still recall the words you said to me
    It’s what you did not say that sets me free
    Now how can I find piece of mind
    When you keep coming back again?
    It’s okay for you to play
    This game of seesaw with my head
    Now it hurts too much
    And it hits too hard
    And I won’t play this part.

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Oooh, nice poem... I rarely know any guys that are interested in writing poems (if you wrote it) or reading poems and enjoying it (if you took it from other sources).
    Ah, so you are saying that you rejected the job offer for your ex? And the relationship turned out to be a failure... well, let me ask you. Were there or are there still any chances of regretting what you did?
    Aww, you like the beach too huh? I do too, I live on the west coast yet no matter how I try I am still as white as a ghost. For the exception when I went to Vietnam, I got a bit tan, but it didn't last for very long. I like being tan and tan people, but for some weird reason, Vietnamese people likes to be white preferably over being tan... which I find is extremely odd- but then and again, different cultures (I'm comparing that of the Americans to the Vietnamese) have different beliefs.


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