one of my friend need an opion!

  • na_12t

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Ok this boy not really my friend cuz he way older then me, i met him in the internet. He was really goofy at first, then he met this girl in the net too. They were such a cute couple, they both get a long so great with each another. Then he begin changing his personality (for what i know he told me that was his first luv) he act so sweet all the suđen, he became a totoally different person. Then 3 or 4 week i hasn't seen him. Yesterday he went on the net and i ask him y don't u come up here to c your gf anymorẻ (just being a lil noisy Giggling ) He told me thAT EVERYTHING seem to be fine between them, but he has waited and waited for her, but he hasn''t seen her, and even if he did she never try to talk to him anymore. Base on the story he told me and i c how they react around each other they was the most perfect couplse ever, even know the relationship just in the net, but they live close together, so their a chance that they can c each other.. But all the suđen one day that girl were being so nice and another day she totoally dis him. What is that all about? Can someone think of any reason y she could have done that? I shouldn''t get in their buiness but i don't like seeing him gloomy all the time, and to make it all clear to everyone ....... he is not my age he 19.... Anyway i really can't think of a reason y she could have done that to him. It kinda hard to understand! Rolleyes

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Maybe this girl has some kind of weird mood swings... Actually maybe she is not the type that would prefer to date via the internet. Maybe she was just trying to have fun and flirt around. A relationship may have not even been in her perspectives. That's all the advice I can give you. :)

  • na_12t

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • well if u think that it what going on then that girl is a player..Wow i hate though kind of girl taking take a heart away (well if she care for the heart then that ok) and squatter it into lil tiny piece then crumble it, step on it, still won't let it goes.. And keep it to herself and keep playing it. WOW now am mad Evil I just want to punch her now.. I don't like other people playing with the one that i'm close to. Actually i don't want that person to feel bad is one things, but the other things is that i don't want anyone heart to be crumble like that, even know i don't know how it felt, but i think i hurt like hell.. And i never wish for anyone to have to go through that sisuation, especially the people i know Cryin Laugh of loud Laugh of loud Anyway i think i need to help him through his trouble now.. Just hope i don't mess up by saying stupid things to give him away.. Giggling Like i say before i know how to create prob or making the prob more worst, but solving it.. well let just say i'm not good at those area Innocent Giggling Giggling

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Oh don't be mad, you can't expect to be mad at her. Not everyone that flirts and chats around via the internet has intentions to develop a relationship. I mean, it would be a bit wrong to do it in reality, but this is the internet world. People can get off with doing things like that. It's really not her fault though, so don't be mad. It probably has to do with your friend though, he misinterpreted her intentions.

  • dieuhien

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • yeah, i agree w/Lustified dont be mad, plus you only heard one side of the story, anyway story always have 2 sides, and when they are in the heat of it, they always think that they are right...plus why waste your energy over something that wasn't yours? I know u want to think best for your friend...what make you think he is not playing either? after all they both met on net and you met him on net too...:)

  • na_12t

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • uhm really net luv totoally stink Laugh of loud Y do people think what they do up here is reality? It is not. Net is just a fun part of your life. Y do everyone take it so seriously. God it just so wrong Cryin

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Heh, I know what you mean. But it is kind of hard for someone not to get infatuated with someone via the internet. For example, people who loves someone for who they are and not how they look would find the net as a perfect world where that notion can exist. Do you know what I mean? The internet is another world, depending on the people you are associating with when you are on the internet. For example, if you are chatting with your friends from school then that is more of reality than a different world. Whereas, like us for example, I really don't know who you are in reality but I do enjoy your company via the net.
    BTW, those romantics do find it difficult for them not to be attracted to someone else via the net. Even though it is a distant world, it is still a world and a part of it is still reality... Do you know what I mean? I mean, surely, I can definitely find a guy on the net and have so much fun talking with him that I can be confused about the mixed feelings I am having when I talk to him. Do you understand now...?

  • na_12t

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • ya but it kind of stupid how people never think of the real reality Evil They just get comfuse like u said.. They thought if they have fun talking to a person they would lead to luv... I totoally doubt that. Shock If u have a great cornversation in real life then u may have the chance to fall in love but if u have a relationship in the net would u ever met that person is the first things u should think about. I hate when some of my friend go to the net. They met some real sweet guy even me got to admite that, but when they talking about luv between them and those guy. I just don't feel right.. They should try to learn not to dream a lot. They have to take a look which one is reality and which is just a fantasy. UHm anyway but if they want to live in their dream world i have no right to stop them. Well u know how i hide from falling or even feeling for any guy in the net? Giggling It kind of stupid but i did it anyway. Anyway if i c a guy that real sweet i usually don't even give them a chance to have even one lil feeling for me. I told them to be my brother in the net. And when i put that line between me and them that mean their is no way i ever fall for them, even if they fall for me. I can 1, 2, 3 broke their heart and let them down slowly. I won't hurt them like other girl.. That just how i'm and my friend say i'm cold hearted. Shock Would u believe that? ME! COLD- HEARTED! THAT is soooooooooooooooooo definitely................. RIGHT! Laugh of loud Laugh of loud Laugh of loud People said i'm cold hearted and that is totoally truth that y i don't get my heart crumble so easy Laugh of loud Giggling Anyway i'm evil Devil Laugh of loud Laugh of loud :blush:

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • No, you don't have a cold heart. What you did, in your case, was probably the best that can result considering you don't want a relationship via the net. I don't really want to hide away from it because I do believe that maybe, even if it is a slim chance, that I may find love via the internet... how I highly doubt it right now. I don't expect to, nor am I wishing to either. But if it happens and I do meet the right guy over the net and I find him to be a real sweetheart, then anything can happen. If he is taking his time out to get to know me and meet me in real life, then isn't that reality just as well...? Like a fantasy world that became real... Kind of like a dream come true wouldn't you say. Now why would you want to run away from a dream that you wanted to see? I know it's rediculous to you now, I remember when I was allowed to go to the chatrooms and talk when I was 13 (yeah, strict parents! didn't allow me in there until I was 13!) Anyway, I felt it was so stupid how people fell in love via the net because I didn't believe in a distant relationship, and I was always under the impression that possibilities of cheating would occur more often. Yet I grew out of that! Why, it is such a selfish thought to even think of such a thing as that. The key to a relationship is trust... and that's all I know, is to believe in him, and the relationship. Of course, I have never dated via the net so I really don't know if it is successful or if it is a failure.

  • na_12t

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • i don't know maybe what u saying is now i think that it never last but when i get older i'll felt different? Well for the fantasy part how many time does real luv really occur in net. WEll truth luv.. I think loving a guy in the net is the most stupidest things ever, sure a fantasy could come truth but how often does that happen? It like 1 chance in a million. It almost impossible, although their alway a chance, but i really doubting the fact that is gonna be me to find truth luv, so that y i think the best way of doing things for me is to back off as much as i could.. Sure i can be friend with them, but falling in love with a boy in the net for me... IMPOSSIBLe....U know what sis let me make a prob for u.... it a stupid one but i would like to ask your opinion is about the net and how people meet too... Giggling

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Come again? I'm not quite understanding your question. :)

  • na_12t

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • it wasn''t really a question i was putting the question mark in the wrong place Laugh of loud Giggling Confused ???

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • No, you wanted to ask my opinion about...? The net and how you meet people? Like what? Can you specify what it is that you wanted to know?

  • na_12t

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • uhm i did want to know something but now i don't know how to put it in the right way.. I think i would need sometime to think about it :P Laugh of loud And anyway i don't think is that important.. Giggling

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Oh okay...that's fine. Anytime you want to ask about anything then just do, okay?


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