sis i got so many prob, when i think about it, if is not luv, then friendship, what could i do?

  • na_12t

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • uhm when i started writing this, truthly i đínt think of anything yet, but here i goes Laugh of loud Anyway i gonna base this story from my life when i was in 6 grade. When i first come here i đin't have much friend, but i đi have a friend. Anyway in that age... sure if a guy is cute, u'll fall for them Innocent(me too Laugh of loud ) Well a lot of boy like her in school, she was really pretty and everything. Anyway the stupidest things about her and it still pissing me off till now is that she alway, i mean alway fall for guy that don't care about her.. It really dumb how it goes.. OK! Anyway even know that boy was a jerk and everything she đin't mine, so what could i do.well even know she like him and everything, her prob is she never dare to tell him (like me Giggling ) sure she shy and that really normal.. But that guy is a complete idiot. i know i can judge him first of all his grade totoally sucks.. Alot of girl following him (that y he think he so cool, and hot..(oh got i need a bucket i gonna throw up now) Laugh of loud ) that y he don't put anyone in his eyes.. He think no girl is good enough for him, and my friend keep following him every where Confused ??? I got sick of it! (i'm not a dog am not gonna follow no one around... i got my limit.) The worst things about everything is that everytime she wanted to give him something, she alway tell me to do it for her Confused ??? and time go by he thought i like him Evil He didn't make fun of me or anything, but he đi do a horrible things Cryin Well like i say he really really think i like him. He starting to have some feeling for me too (i guess) but i alway want to get away from him (as far as i could... sometime i even wish to fly back to Vn) but i couldn''t cuz my friend didn''t know what was going on so she keep telling me to give him stuft.. I really dónt want to do it, but the way she beg me to i just couln''t deny, and that time i didn't know if he truthly like me or not.. i just keep telling myself to think that it was all imagination of what he did for me.. So i keep doing my job.. But then the dance in my school started.. it could say the worst day of my life, where my friendship got ruin, and everything in my life flip up side down Cryin In the dance my friend and i was standing next to each other.. I saw him coming but i đin't really care. He came over my friend look all excited, she was waiting for him to ask her to dance... Well one word of his is what flip my life around... He didn't ask her to dance, instead he ask me. And i totoally flip, my friend look at me, her sad expression really make me want to cry. SHe thought i stole her men. From that day forward everything wasn''t the same no more.. Guess everyone go their own way. Me and my bested friend ever hardly talk to each other no more. And after i rejected him he didn't want to talk to me either.. The he move. Me and my friend still keep contact, till now, but sometime i feel like she still hate me for what has happen. Now she like one of the worst enemy i ever have. Then when i go to 7th grade, things got worst.. She begin following this 'gangs' as i would call.. They all against me. Her and me usually hate those people, but now she hang out with them, i really didn't know what to do... Well in my school is like a big adventure.. Their like different kind of groups.. none of the groups get a long.. We sometime even declare war Laugh of loud But i really don't want to be against her.. i still think her as my friend, but i guess she doesen't think so cuz whenever she have to do something to hurt me she never seem to care and give me a punch that hurt so badly. If other people do things to me i wouldn''t feel as hurt, but if she đi it, it really like riping me apart. Anyway usually i would fight back but for some reason facing her i feel so small i don't have anything left or any feeling left for me to fight back.. I couldn''t get rit of that feeling last years, and i has carrying that feeling for a year in a half, and it totoally sucks.. What can i do to be her friend again, i really don't want this to keep happening, cuz is extremely effecting every single action that i do. I do not want it to end like that, even if people think that my friendship with her has already over from the night that the boy choose me, but i DO NOT think so, even if is it. I want to try my best to keep it up, but how? :(

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • You can't. Not everything that happens in this world is in our control. 'Lil sis, that girl let one guy get between your friendship, apparently she valued him and her reputation more than she did for you. Sure, you can wish to be friends with her, but you have your limits just as well. Remember Luv_yall and her ex boyfriend? She tried to remain civil with that guy but it was merely impossible because he wanted to make her suffer for the pain she put him through.
    Now, I am not quite sure whether the "punch" you mentioned earlier was a literal punch or a figure of speech. But if that girl DID punch you with her fists then first off, you are going to a really bad school where such criminal acts exists and two, she does not deserve to be your friends. And no matter how you try and attempt to be her friend, she moved on and she has her new friends now. I don't think she really wants you in her life anymore.
    It doesn't only happen to you 'lil sis. Yours truly here has had that same experience. The school I've gone to has been a pleasant one where fights, gangs, and criminal actions are rare but the use of drugs here compensate for that matter. Anyway, I have been friends with these group of girls, all white of course because I go to a school where I am the minority and the Vietnamese population in the city of North Bend is probably limited to less than 1%. Anyways, those girls have been the harmless type until they started becoming sluts (and one of them may even be pregnant as I speak). I found it really difficult to associate with these people because I am the conservative type and sexual interactions with boys prior to marriage is unacceptable to me. Although I must admit my friendship with them has slowly declined within weeks, I do know that it is beyond my control and I will not change my beliefs and lifestyle just to be with them. Sure, I may not be hanging out with those girls 24/7, yet instead I have gained a respect from almost each and everyone of them and they all seek me for advice. It's not a pitiful life, it's just one with many imperfections and discontent that one wishes for everything to change- and this type of change is beyond anyone's control. :)

  • na_12t

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Well sis about the punch u mention, it actually was a real punch, and it truthly does hurt.. But anyway if u put it that way i don't know what to think anymore, well guess i'm not impostant as i think i'm to everyone Laugh of loud Laugh of loud (just playing) Ok being serious if u put it that way then everything seem so worthless i don't know y i even being so nice with her guess is all a guilty act of mine. I guess i reall felt guilty for that boy to like me unstead of her, that y i try my best to fix my prob, but i guess all my work carrying out for 1 in a half is all a waste of time. It kind of sucks.. I never lost to anyone in my life even the one person i truthly luv, but i can't believe because of my guiltiness i has letting her take control of me for so long. Should i have a pay back Laugh of loud Laugh of loud j/k Laugh of loud Anyway i know everything is not in my hand but at least i know i try my best right? And i shouldn''t be feeling guilty no more right? :blush:

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Revenge...ah how sweet! But no, vengeance actually makes you become a lower person than the person that caused you pain. Never take vengeance upon anyone because it is a really low act. But of course, you know better than that :)
    I say it wasn't your fault to feel guilty anyways. According to what I read, that girl is a pretty girl but with a sad attitude like that of hers, no boy can truly lke her. It's not entirely your fault, your friend should have taken actions in her own hands. However, it is your fault for not confronting your friend about how awkward you felt when you had to give all those stuff to him. And it was also a part of your fault for not making it clear who the gifts were from. But that's not important- directing the blame that is. What's important is that you gave that friend of yours chances after chances yet she isn't being a good sport about it. And punching people is really mean and uncivilized.

  • na_12t

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • I'm not gonna take revenge. Even know how much i hate her or something like that, i would never do something like that... im not that >>>>> Evil Giggling Anyway even know we not friend no more, still whenever she need my help i'll do it for her..(even know people said i'm dumb) Well about the gift, she gave him like chap stick for his lips so in the winter it wouldn''t get bleeded and everything. She told me that she didn't want him to know about it, she was really caring for him, and she didn't want me to tell so i don't know what to do. I couldn't told him that she gave it to him, it would mean betray i guess. But when i think about it i should have told him the truth and maybe things wouldn't get at worst.. Well whenever i think in whatever way the one who is mostly wrong is still me Blinking Cryin Oh well i'll wish one day she could put it away and who know maybe sh''ll forgive me and we can be friend again.

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Maybe... it depends all on her. Good thinking on this one though, 'lil sis.

  • na_12t

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • oh my god i have a compliment from my sis :blush: Crying wow never happen cảm động ghê Grin :blush: Giggling

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Lol! Laugh of loud Funny...! I thought you said you were cold-hearted (of course you're not!) how could you be cam dong...? J/K!!

  • na_12t

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • lol Laugh of loud ím cold- hearted to other people but of course not to my sis Grin :blush: I luv u so much of course not :D :blush: Big arm hug

  • Lustify

    khoảng 2 10 năm trước
  • Awww! Love you lots, 'lil sis. Nghe thay cam dong thiet do! Laugh of loud


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